Love is Universal.. isn't it?

A group of 4 to 8 year-old Children were asked, “What does love mean?” The answers they gave were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined.

"Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday." (Tina – age 7)

"My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night." (Clare – Age 5)


"When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You know that your name is safe in their mouth." (Billy – age 4)


"When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love." (Rebecca – age 8)


"Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.." (Chrissy – age 6)


"Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired."
(Terri – age 4)


"Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK." (Danny – age 7)


"Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well." (Tommy – age 6)


"During my piano recital, I was on a stage and scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore. That’s love." (Cindy -age 8)


"Love is when mommy gives daddy the best piece of chicken." (Elaine – age 5)


"Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day." (Mary Ann – age 4 )



Credit to Dia Adtani from http://www.forwardedemails.com

Em hm.. This is exciting, isn't it? Apa yang kanak-kanak tengok, their perception la senang kata.. way too special from adult. I do think so but I don't know others..... Setuju atau tak, terpulang kepada masing-masing yang menilai..

As for me, love is something precious that no one can really have the same feelings and exciting deep down their heart, enjoying what they do and don't as long as they make no harm..

And please... please be optimistic. Love doesn't mean towards people only. It is universal. It isn't just about loving your partner. There's no such thing. apetah lagi partner before marriage. NO WAY! Say NO to COUPLE, remember~ Okay, good! I'm done here.. =)

Ketika Cinta Bertasbih

Bertuturlah cinta
Mengucap satu nama
Seindah goresan sabdamu dalam kitabku
Cinta yang bertasbih
Mengutus Hati ini
Kusandarkan hidup dan matiku padamu

Bisikkan doaku
Dalam butiran tasbih
Kupanjatkan pintaku padamu Maha Cinta
Sudah di ubun-ubun cinta mengusik resah
Tak bisa kupaksa walau hatiku menjerit

Ketika Cinta bertasbih Nadiku berdenyut merdu
Kembang kempis dadaku merangkai butir cinta
Garis tangan tergambar tak bisa aku menentang
Sujud sukur padamu atas segala cinta

kata ustaz anhar, kenapa cinta perlu bertasbih?
kata ustaz pahrol jangan bertasbihkan cinta!
renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal! (",)

pesan nabi...

"Barangsiapa yang Allah mahukan kebaikan untuknya, nescaya DIA akan mengujinya dengan kesusahan"
(Riwayat Al-Bukhari)

update. update. update

its already 7th dec.. maknanya cuti nak abeh dah ujung bulan nanti.. so sad.. sangat sadis.. akan kembali bz dengan tonssss of assignmentsss. kalut dgn microteaching n presentation. kan best dapat santai kat rumah 24/7. "then marry a dato'.. sure u can be at home 24/7"... "cuci kaki masuk rumah, goyang kaki dok rumah.." hahah! ini kerja g.i.l.a. mana boleh idup senang just like dat.. rite?

bukan senang nak senang

bukan susah nak senang

bila cukup usaha kita

bila kita yakin dengan DIA

bila kita percaya dengan janji-NYA

bila DIA ingat dekat kita

selagi mana kita ingat dekat DIA

percayalah

DIA ada untuk kita

makanya akan senanglah hidup kita,

insyaAllah..

(",)

smile 4 your future
smile 4 our future


ehem dan.dan. teringat 1 lagu zaman kanak-kanak riang dulu..

senyum seindah suria
yang membawa cahaya
senyumlah dari hati
duniamu berseri

senyum umpama titian
dalam kehidupan
ku tersenyum
kau tersenyum
kemesraan menguntum

senyum
kepada semua
senyumanmu
amatlah berharga

senyum
membahagiakan
dengan senyuman
terjalinlah ikatan

moh nyanyi se'round' lagi!

best tau senyum ni.. bila kita senyum, orang tak dapat nak tebak apa perasaan kita yg sebenar-benarnya. 1 tips utk buat kita nampak kool.. woho~

6 signs your guy is cheating

ayat baca macam gempak.. gaya macam ada buah hati (say NO to COUPLE!).. nak check email dekat yahoo tadi tapi terrrnampak excerpt dekat skrin.. macam menarik! nak-nak pulak, telinga dah banyak kali jadi santapan,

"dah break up.." "dah putus.." "single balik la sekarang.."
"entahlah, tak tahu kenapa dia....."

sedih jugak walaupun sendiri pegang motto *say NO to COUPLE!*. justeru, dengan semangatnya tak tunggu lama, terus klik dekat article 6 Signs Your Guy is Cheating. mari kita lihat apa isinya..

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It’s every woman’s worst relationship fear — that her man is cheating. We’ve all heard the statistic: half of all men cheat. And some experts say that number is even closer to three quarters. Could it be happening to you? Aside from finding lipstick on his collar, a mysterious c***** in his pocket or, yes, a phone number on a napkin (helpful hints but unlikely clichés!), there are some red flags to watch out for to tip you off that something fishy might be going on. The following are six signs that should raise your eyebrows:

1. He’s Acting Differently

The most telltale sign of a cheating man is that he’s acting differently than the way he used to. If any of the signals below describe your guy’s usual actions, don’t freak out and immediately assume he’s having an affair; he’s probably just being his quirky self. What you should be suspicious of is new developments, says Barbara Feld, a couple’s therapist at Park Avenue Relationship Consultants in New York City. She says you should ask yourself,

“Is what’s happening different than normal?

"Is he showing a real change in behavior?”

It’s when he starts to be that way and never was before that you should start asking questions.

2. He’s Avoiding You

If your guy has suddenly started coming home much later, seems to be making excuses to be out of the house, starts going away with out you on the weekends, or just generally seems to be avoiding you, that’s a clear indication of trouble in your relationship. M. Gary Neuman, a licensed family counselor and the author of “The Truth About Cheating” found that 61 percent of cheating men said they started spending more time away from home. 55 percent of men about to cheat said the same thing. No matter how busy your guy may be, he should be making an effort to see you (because, hello – he loves you, right?). If he’s stopped making time for you, it’s not at all unreasonable to wonder if he’s making time for someone else.

3. this part rasa macam kurang appropriate nak tempek dekat sini.. skip la eah..


4. His General Response to You Has Changed

If a guy is having an affair, he may stop acting like the sweet, romantic man you fell in love with. Maybe he used to be very loving and kind towards you, but now he seems to get annoyed easily, be critical, or pick fights. If he’s consistently not being affectionate with you, don’t brush it off. Try to figure out why he’s different – and what could be distracting him, or making him feel guilty.


5. He Has Suddenly Become Very Private

It’s just not normal for your guy to always go into a different room to answer calls, keep his cell phone in his car, or get really private about his bills (unless, of course, your man is a privacy freak and you knew that going in). But if he suddenly stops checking his e-mail in front of you, has turned the bathroom into a phone booth, and has redirected the bills to his office, it’s a fair guess than an affair is under way.


6. He is Unreliable

Quite simply, says Barbara Feld, “is he where he says he will be?” If he’s never where he says he’s going to be, it’s a certain sign he’s lying to you about something. Maybe he says he’ll be at the office, but you call and he’s not there. Or he says he’s with a friend, and that friend then calls looking for him. Everyone’s plans change sometimes, but if your guy is consistently not where he says he will be, it’s very possible it’s because he’s with another woman.

What to Do?
If your guy is showing any of these six signs, talk with him about it. Tell him things feel different than they used to, and you want to know what’s going on. “If he tells you everything is fine but you know it’s not, continue to pursue the issue,” says Barbara Feld. “You can also suggest, ‘let’s talk to someone together,’ and get couples therapy.”

Don’t turn a blind eye on your relationship. If things are bad, getting bad, or just feel strange, do something about it. Even if you guy isn’t having an affair, all the signs above could be signals that he’s about to. By addressing – and working with him to fix – whatever is going on in your relationship, you can prevent an affair from ever happening in the first place. If you’re noticing negative changes or problems in your relationship, address them now, while they’re still small. Maintaining a strong relationship with open communication is one of the best things you can do to ensure fidelity—both on his part, and on yours.

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rasanya, kalau kita kahwin dengan someone yang kita sudah terima buruk dan baiknya, kelebihan dan kekurangannya, terima dengan ikhlas zahir dan batin, masalah macam ni susah untuk wujud dalam satu-satu relation. untuk clear lagi, kalau suami atau isteri yang saling memahami and saling ada komunikasi 2 hala, masalah macam ni boleh dielakkan.. ye x?

kahwin tu bukan untuk suka-suka hanya sebagai syarat menghalalkan sesuatu perhubungan. tapi more to expand a relation. that's why kalau nak kahwin, bagi yang perempuan, biasanya orang akan cakap..

"pilihlah adam yang sayang hawa lebih, bukan kehebatan sayang hawa dekat adam,"

so how? orang kata, senang bercakap, nak melaksanakannya tu sendiri mau pikir.. herm.. kita balik kepada fitrah manusia. manusia ni diciptakan Allah. jadi kasih sayang cinta tu salurkan dulu dekat yang utama, Yang Maha Esa. lepas tu dekat kesayangan-NYA, nabi akhir zaman, Muhammad S.A.W. kemudian tu pasti ibu ayah kita.. kemudian barulah bakinya kita curahkan kepada pasangan kita. macam mana nak dapatkan pasangan yang terbaik? doakan ada.. ALLAH tu maha mengetahui.

... siapa kata perempuan tak mengamalkan cheating? ada.. dalam kalangan kawan sendiri pun ada. tapi kenapa asyik lelaki je yang kena, bukan perempuan? kenapa? sebab lelaki biasanya dikaitkan dengan ego, licik.. (no hard feelings please..) jarang perempuan dilabelkan macam tu. tapi ikutkan edaran zaman sekarang ni alaf 21, millenium, konfem ada antara kaum perempuan yang sudah menang title tak best disebut tadi. jawapan pada semua masalah ada dalam diri setiap pasangan tu sebenarnya. kekuatan iman jadi kayu ukur. Allah jadi tempat bersandar. asal kita pegang pada rukun iman, rukun islam dan yakin dengan DIA, insyaAllah kebahagiaan datang sentiasa.. insyaAllah.


oh ya! lupa.. i'm getting older la asyik dok lupa je.. credit to Amber Madison from BettyConfidential.com for the article..

aha! 1 more.. orang putih kalau discuss pasal relations sure konfem its a relation before marriage.. tapi dalam konteks post malam ni, menjurus kepada after marriage.. remember the motto, *say NO to COUPLE!* =)

it's holiday!!!

yeayyy!!!

excited terlebih..

Holiday pekenama study week ni... hurmmm. dis time i've to focus more. takmo la jadi macam last time... sadis sungguh. tapi untuk subjek minor, mmg harapan la nak dapat A. bayang-bayang A- pun agak mustahil.. bukan nak negative thinking, tapi melihatkan kepada coursework marks... *geleng je boleh* high expectation from lecturers agaknya.. *blur* minor and major students aren't the same.. tolonglah my dear lecturers... tolonglah be in our shoes. we're still learning.

Boleh ke nak cakap macam tu dgn lecturers?? hurmmm... think twice la deyy! ukur baju kat badan sendiri.. kalau kerja pakai dan je, result pun sama la.. appadaaa... kalau cerita dekat mak ni, mau keluar ayat mak zaman sekolah dulu.. "Don't dig your own grave, adik.." seram sungguh!

Mak~~~ tolonglah anakmu yang paling lemah dalam lima-lima yang ada.. sangat malu sebenarnya. adik-adik lagi success dari kakak. mujur kakak n abang success dari adik yang sorang ni. anak yang tengah ni macam spoil sikit.. haishhh.. sadis sungguh bila dah low self-esteem.. no one can help u laa.. wake up dear!!! life goes on remember..

it's a MUST!

paying back something that's crystal clear wasn't mine is a MUST.

Pelik. Memang pelik hidup ni.. Pelik bila someone yang sudah claimed himself dotdotdot..... planting good seeds on me. Sangat pelik. It's just nice to have someone who really cares about us. But then..... P.E.L.I.K.

What else can i do except for paying back all his kindess.. Let me be da one yang paham semua ni as it's hard to explain everything.. huhuuu

final microteaching

phewww... hari ni last microteaching for this semester... teaching of reading n writing... lil' bit nebes... i'm gonna teach form 1 (intermediate) for pre-activity.

last week lagi dah prepare everything tapi tak sempat... postpone hari ni and i'm the first teacher! *clap-clap-clap*

u go girl~~~